Sunday, April 24, 2005

Being single....

Whats wrong being single?? Some people when u ask them about their status, they would proudly declared that they are attached and there are people who would reply shyly or awkwardly that they are single. Hmm..what kind of attitude and mentality is this?? Being attached doesnt means u will always be attached, this apply to people who are married as well. Being single doesnt mean u will be single forever.

It is definitely not neccessary to say that attached person are more charming, have better ability to attract opposite sex, are more financially stable, are more out spoken.
They are attached because they have better luck (kio tio sai), fate put them together, opposite party eyes "ta" stamp, love is blind, they have something his/her partner see in him/her (like lots of $$$).
Oops..sounds like very pessimistic and can smell the vinegar from my mouth..keke;P

Anyway...I can say all this just because I AM SINGLE!!!
Wahahahaha

After being single for about 4 months, let me summarise about single life...

Pros

  • No commitment. Dont need to worry about my partner, like health, safety, well being..etc
  • No restriction. Can go anywhere I like, do whatever I like without REPORTING!
  • Extra $. That would means I could either have better saving or higher spending power. No more "my $ is your $, your $ is still your $" policy. YEAH! I can bet more on soccer...opps
  • More time. Can spend more time with family (did i?), spend more time with friends (sure i did, especially lost alot of friends due to GF. Now want to find groups of friends to go karaoke also very difficult. Mahjong kaki also dont jio me le.), spend more time on myself (beautified myself to get another gf? Err..dont need lah, already smart enough...wahahha)

CONS

  • No commitment. It could means also that I could become more slack, brain working less, not so care and concern, no more the gentlemen I used to be, not so sensitive anymore! This could also means less/nobody to care about me. Sad!
  • No Restriction. This could cause havoc in my life. Nobody would tell me this not to do, that not to do. So I simply do anything I like. Could turn astray in life.
  • Extra $. More $ to spend no doubt. But would I be happy to spend $ on myself only?? Sometimes spending $ on others would be happier. <- others here refer to relevant personnel. Not some cat A and dog B.
  • More time. Yes! Definitely more time, more than enough time. More time and less activities means too much time!! Too much time will create loneliness!!

So afterall, being single isn't that good also unless you have a large group of very good friends. Good friends here doesnt refer to those extras who are hi-bye type. Preferably, they must be single as well, else they wont have much time for you either. Argghh...I want to go karaoke...where are my friends who sing?? -.-"

Criteria for my next partner:

  • Good temperamental. This is hell important. Really had too much on the previous one.
  • High durability in looks. Err...I know alot of people sure say looks is not important. But we are humans mah, especially man, is a creature who only like beauty stuff. 人要衣裝﹐佛要金裝
  • Able to get into kitchen and get out of living room. (進得了廚房﹐出得了廳堂). Must be like me lah, everything also know abit, hence no activities will be miss. keke. I can cook also okie??
  • Abit sporty. Yes! Please take note of the word "abit". Cause too much time devoted to sports means no interest in other activities.
  • Natural Chemistry. A man made chemistry might not last as long as a nature one?
  • Heart of gold. Like me of cause. wahaha...no evil thoughts and totally harmless. As innocent as me! Yeah! Naive girls are easier to cheat? wahahha
  • Filial. Important!! If not you will get retribution on your next generation!!
  • Have lots of $ and thick CPF. This is a plus point, not that important. Cause to me, 錢財是身外物 .
  • Nice legs. Haha, I seems to emphasis on this. Keke...got fetish for nice legs girls nowadays.
  • Good communication. No communication barrier and on right frequency track. It really boils my blood when the other party dont understand what i am saying. Not to say I dont understand what the other party is thinking. And I hate it when words are stuff into my mouth!!
  • Nice hair. Doesnt neccessary need to be long silky hair. A nice hair would means suitable hair style to suit the person face and personality. A nice hair would bring out one's character. Like da jie's hair quite suitable for her, though look abit dry and frizzy. Xiao mei frequently change her hair to have a fresher look also not bad. Already cant remember whats her old hair style like when the new one start to blend into her.

Hey, am I too greedy?? If not I must be dreaming then. When would i be able to find such person?? Siao...*slap* better wake up my idea!

However, I will still be waiting..................


Waiting for you i'm waiting for you
Waiting for you come here to my dream
牵着你不断旋转 一直到黑发成了银线
Waiting for you waiting for you 直到永远

2 Comments:

At Sun Apr 24, 10:38:00 pm GMT+8, Anonymous Anonymous said...

bro, I feel like chging my hairstyle AGAIN!!

 
At Sun Apr 24, 11:54:00 pm GMT+8, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Xiao Di, i guess it's time for me to cut hair liao. Can't wait for the frizzy hair to grow long enuff for me to cut it off.

 

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